I was extremely impressed this weekend by a young man i met. More so than I have ever been with any of my friends at the age he is now. The reason I imagine I was so taken aback, is that I can relate to certain emotions and thought processes that he has. Despite a significant age difference, I never felt I was speaking with a child.
I only had to wait a little bit for his defenses to come down, in order to see how truly exceptional he is. I know that many gifted people express their intellect and creativity differently but being in line with my way of thinking, it was even simpler to appreciate.
Not only that, but his desire to succeed despite some pretty serious obstacles, and at such a young age, impressed me to no end. I see clearly now, how my family contributed to keeping me in line, and now know it wasn't an easy battle for them to face. I also appreciate my family friend Tony, who was able to set an example and encourage me in his own way, to do well.
I know that at seventeen, I was only starting to realise how certain things affected me, and it took me quite awhile longer to put certain checks in place and begin to succeed.
I cannot imagine, given the obstacles this young man has faced, how he could possibly be as motivated, intelligent, creative and respectful as he is right now. What is most shocking is that he has never lost his heart and kindness, throughout everything. I am willing to move mountains (do anything in my power without compromising my own life) to make sure that him and his sister stay in school and do well. Anything less would be more than a waste. I guess I do understand now, how my family felt about me at one point in my life.
Although it is hard to put into words how I feel. I think a mixture of protectiveness, appreciation and friendship is about right.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
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